When it comes to performing daily household chores, is the time spent on those tasks evenly split between men and women? Not even close. In this article from Mother Nature Network, environmental journalist Starre Vartan reports on the results of a recent study from the Journal of Marriage and Family that offers scientific proof that women are doing nearly twice as much as men around the home.
In almost half of two-parent American families with kids, both parents work full-time. But when they come home from their paid labor, women are still doing more work (almost twice as much) when it comes to household chores. This trend was first discussed in the 1970s, when it was dubbed “the second shift.”
Part of the problem is that men think they’re doing equal duty, as so many of them reported in a Pew Research Center poll of more than 1,800 American parents. Women in that same poll disagreed, saying they do more work, and according to several new studies, when couples are asked to keep a time diary (a more reliable way to get data than asking people what they remember doing), the diaries prove that women are right.
The data from the most recent study (April 2015), show that women spend almost twice as much time (18 hours to men’s 10) doing the at-home grunt work like cleaning. Men not only do less, but they also choose the more enjoyable stuff like playing with kids or supervising bath time.
You’ll notice that I specified parents in the graphs above. That’s because researchers have found that this increased work kicks in when a baby arrives. Prior to that milestone, work is mostly evenly split between to partners if they both work full-time. And the situation isn’t improving: While men are spending more time caring for kids than ever before, they’re actually spending less time on housework than they did in the 1990s. Not surprisingly, women are doing more. And that time doing housework comes directly out of women’s work and leisure time, according to the time-use surveys.
And while some have argued that women biologically pay more attention to and are closer to their children — and therefore “naturally” spend more time caring for them — that same argument can’t be made when it comes to mopping the bathroom floor or cleaning the fridge. As Bryce Covert writes in the Nation: “… there’s no biological determinant for housework. No gender is physically predisposed to want to do the dishes or take out the trash.”
Covert digs into why this unfair situation exists, and her thinking goes back to childhood, where on average, girls do two hours more housework a week than boys and are less likely than boys to be paid to do that work. This is where the cleanliness of the home is first instilled as a girl’s concern. So even if they’re making the same salary as their husband when they’re 35, women tend to feel that a messy home is their responsibility.